After observing thousands of love relationships as a matchmaker, and over 25 years of empirical research involving relationships, spirituality, and personality assessment, including writing a book about soul mates, we’ve concluded that there are many love life expectations and traps that repeatedly burden even the smartest and most successful people. Consider the tenets below to make the most of your romantic life, whether you’re involved or single.

Do you have the right moves to make a man love you? Have you figured out what men really want in a relationship?

So you’re in love, but is he feeling the same for you? What can you do to show him you are the one for him and make him fall in love with you?